Mom

I have the most amazing mom in the world! She is so strong and can do just about anything!  She is the worlds best grandma and can grow about the biggest flowers in town. She is beautiful inside and out and quite the fighter! She is the best mom anyone could ask for and has taught me so much. These last couple of weeks she has been through so much pain and we all just wish we could take it away. She has shown us how strong she really is and has toughed through it all like a champ and with a smile on her face ! Here we are 2 weeks later and she looks like she had a little fall off her bike and broke her arm. Little would you know what she has been through the past couple of weeks and  that she is still broken all over the place. She is very strong willed and determined to get better and she is doing just that. Each day she improves leaps and bounds and discovers a new thing that she can do on her own! I love her so much and am so thankful she is recovering quickly and getting back to her old self! The miracles our family have witnessed recently are more amazing than I could put into words. I am so thankful for my mom, for her faith and determination to get better, and for everything that she has ever done for me! LOVE YOU MOM!!!!

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Home Sweet Home 09-11-11

Mom was finally able to come home yesterday (Saturday 09-10-11) after 9 long days in the hospital. She is doing amazing and impressing us by her progress each day. I finally got permission to post some of the photos from mom today :) We helped her get all showered today and now she looks like a whole new woman!











Day 6 update

Mom has been doing physical therapy twice a day to get her up an moving around. She still has her tube in her that drains the fluids from her lungs that they are monitoring very closely …Getting the tube removed will be our next major goal for the road home- She got out of ICU yesterday which was great progress but a little scary because all of the monitors didn’t go with her, instead we rely on nurses to come in to check her vitals every so often. Which they have been doing an excellent job .. but the monitors were a big comfort! The pain seems to be mostly under control. the epidural is helping with her back and ribs a ton.. the collar bone, wrist, and skull/face are the most painful now because the epidural is taking care of the rest. She has been resting as much as possible but worried about the long term of things. The support we have received has been so amazing. thank you to everyone who has come to visit  me cher shay and dad and support us and for all the kind cards, flowers and treats you have brought!

In shayla’s words…..

"She has been very hesitant to let people in and see her. She finally looks better. Her face has been very black and not a good sight for most. She is looking better each day though. She hasn't seen her self which is a good thing.”

so for mom’s sake I will spare you the black eyed pictures of her. for those of you that have been asking, here is the rock she fell off. She fell off of the one right in the center of the picture that kind of looks like a little overhang.

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Day 5

Shayla Barker Snow Thanks Everyone! Mom made it out of the ICU today.YEAH! She amazes us every day at how much she progresses! She actually walked to the window (with lots of arms) and back to the bed! Very painful but accomplished that huge task! To think she walked over a mile herself and now with hard drugs she can only walk a few steps. Step by step she will one day ride her lawn mower again. (she asked today if she ever could again.)

Mom’s Update 09/05/2011 Labor Day

What a difference just a day can make. Her surgeries went well yesterday but left her with a lot of pain after the anesthesia wore off.  Today they have finally managed to get mom’s pain under control which has been such a blessing! She has been up for her physical therapy and did amazing. She had her hair combed and is loving any of the pampering that is allowed especially the teeth brushing . She is still in the ICU trauma care unit but hanging in there and amazing us everyday. She received an epidural yesterday before her surgery which is now helping with her rib and back pains and they have given her a new medication today that is lasting a lot longer and helping with the rest of the intense pain. She has started eating slowly which has been helping her improve as well. Still a long road ahead but so glad she is improving by the day. Thanks for all your prayers, they are really helping her to get through this!

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Mom’s Accident 09/02/2011

We had a big family trip planned for labor day to the San Rafael Swell for some camping and hiking. Dad, Me, Steve Shay and zeb and our Kids got down to camp on thursday. Cher and her kids were coming Friday to join us. Friday we headed over to the swell to crack canyon to do the narrows hike we were about an hour in when the trail kind of split and took and upper path and lower path. Pretty soon the lower path dipped down and the upper path gradually sloped up which made for quite the gap between the two paths. some of us were down on the bottom part, mom, bridger, mccrae and steve were up on top. (maybe 12 feet?) Mom went to stoop around a little overhang and lost her balance. Her reaction was to jump about 4 feet down to a lower ledge to catch herself. When she landed on the next ledge down she had too much momentum to stop herself and tumbled head first to the next set of rocks and from there fell again another 4 feet into dad’s arms on bottom. We were all a little shook up and at that point didn’t know what our plan was. There was a lot of bleeding from a bad cut above her eyebrow that had initially made us all extremely nervous until we found out where it was coming from. we had no cell phone service and were in there quite a ways. Mom , the strong woman that she is, took 4 ibuprofen and told us that she needed to get out of there and that she was going to walk herself out! We made her a sling for her shoulder that was in such bad pain and up she got. Dad and shay walked by her side to keep her steady on the one arm but her left arm was so bad no one was able to help her on the other side. It was such a miracle that she was able to walk herself out of there. We finally made it back to the trucks and headed for green river to the medical center and to find cell phone service . We had her stabilized at the green river medical center and from there they took her to price by ambulance. Dad rode with her to price while the rest of us rushed back to camp to get the trailers and clean up camp. I left ahead of the rest in my car to try to get to price so dad had a car if she had to be airlifted. She had head to toe CT scans in price and from there was taken to Utah Valley by helicopter. We got a hold of cher before she headed down to meet us and instead she was able to meet my mom at UVRM when the helicopter arrived. After many scans x rays mris and many doctors evaluating her. Here is what they found…….I don’t know all the technicalities and terms so don’t take it too official I will explain it the best I can.

Collapsed lung with a slight puncture which allowed some air and fluid in. 7 broken ribs, fractured skull from top of forehead across the eyebrow and bridge of her nose, and something with her orbital scoket?, broken bones in behind the nose, bulged disks below the neck, chip in back of skull above neck, I once heard vertebrae wings broken, severe broken collar bone, and broken wrist.

She is stable and staying very strong. The pain is the worst part that they are trying to get under control. She had surgery when we got to UVRM on friday night to insert a tube to drain her lung and to go in and clean out the fractured skull by the eye to prevent infection. Lots of scans yesterday (saturday) and surgery again this morning to fix the collar bone and wrist. It should be her last surgery because all of her other injuries have to just heal on their own and can’t be surgically fixed.

We are so thankful for everyone’s concern, support and prayers on behalf of our family. The support we have had is what is getting us through each day. There is a long recovery ahead and we are just taking things one day at a time. We are so thankful for the miracle that she was able to walk out of there and know that because of her faith and prayers she was able to do that. Thanks again to everyone for your love support and prayers. It is very appreciated!